This makes me so angry, I can’t even…. GRRRRRRRRR
Did you just describe rape as something to hope for?? Really?? GO FUCK YOURSELF.
Let’s talk about how this “joke” has been submitted by different people a few times since this blog has existed so this fuckface is both disgusting and all kinds of unoriginal.
So, last night, I was getting ready to go out with my boyfriend to a dance at my school (which was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales) and, I had a nice black vest and a nice white shirt, and my uncle had just came home the other day from the mine (my uncle is homophobic and he has abused me many times throughout my child hood) and when I had came out of my room to show my memere how nice I looked, my uncle was in the room that i thought my grandma/memere would be in (she was downstairs doing laundry), and he asked me why I wasnt wearing a dress.
my memere and dad both know that I am transgendered and they respect that, however, my uncle does not, and he did not know.
so I decided to sit down and tell him the truth.
he listened carefully and quietlly through all of it, but at the end of my explanation he had said, “I didn’t raise you to be fucked up.”
I agreed, I am a huge mess, I have been for years, but my sexuality and gender identity is not a fuck up, so I argued with him.
he got to a point where, after so many months of piece, he slapped me.
and threw me to the ground and kicked me in the stomach, of course I had puked, and it hurt, a lot.
he grabbed me by the shirt and asked me, “are you a girl”, I said no, my sex is female, but my gender is male..and he dragged me to his room.
he once had a big dog, and he made that dog wear an eletrical dog collar, and weve always kept it in his room, because we dont need it (my uncle killed the dog), he threw me onto the bed and said,” ill ask you one more time, are you a girl” I said no.
held grabbed my wrist, and held onto it tightly, I have a bruise from how tight he was grabbing it, and he pulled out the dog collar, threw me back onto the bed, sat on me, and put the collar on me… then he began yelling, are you a girl, you are a girl, are you a girl, you are a girl, and my response of course was no, no, no, I am male, I am male.
whenever I said that, he would shock me, and it was /hell/.
I was screaming, which only caused the shocks to get worse and worse, and then he said, “do you want to find out how faggots have sex!?” of course I already know this, but still I said no no no no stop stop stop.
my memere had finally heard me and came rushing to the bedroom, and tried to make my uncle stop, but he pushed her down, and thanked god she was okay.. since shes very fragile and all.
she then ran back to the stairs to call up my dad, and oh boy did he run.
he ran up stairs and shoved my uncle away from me and started fighting with him, yelling, punching, kicking, and such so on.
my memere got the collar off of me and brought me into her room, and after my dad and uncle were done fighting, my uncle had grabbed the things he needed and left, shouting a few insults at us.
we called the police today, but they cant find him.
we dont have money for a lawyer, all we have is a counsellor, im not going to ask for money, all I ask for is support.
I dont know what this will do, but please spread this around, this has affected me and family members greatly. I was taken to a hospital today to check if there was any damage on my insides that we dont know of and thankfully there was no damage, just scarring, emotionally and physically. i had a horrifying nightmare relating to this as well.
If you have abused somebody, raped somebody, insulted somebody, in any way possible, I hope this can somehow change your way of heart, and realize how much this can horrify a person, and ruin their lives. it made my life 97x worse than it already is.
This is horrific omg!
tell me again how transmen have it easy. you poor boy, i hope you will someday feel safe and welcome in your life. i am sending good vibrations your way
LET THIS POST BE A FUCKING BEACON LET THIS BE A FUCKING BEACON TO EVERYONE OUT THERE WHO IS AGAINST TRANS* PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU DONT BELIEVE WERE PEOPLE BUT FREAKS. YOU ARE HURTING PEOPLE
This literally makes me want to cry.. I am so sorry, man.. :/
not trying to sound like a b***h but I know for a fact that if something like this happened to a trans woman hardly anyone would notice and people would say she was asking for it
I don’t think anyone is ever asking for it. The fact that there isn’t news coverage around any violence with regard to this nature is horrifying. Any sort of gender violence is horrific. Any sort of violence is horrific.
my youth was all about learning and being taught how things work. my teens into my adulthood has been all about un-learning and teaching myself.
As the old adage goes, bodies come in many shapes and sizes. Every body is different because nobody shares exactly the same genetic code as another person. Hence, we are paradoxically united by our corporeal diversity: everybody is actually the same because each and every body is unique and different.
—Tony Bogdanoski, “Every Body is Different: Regulating the Use (and Non-Use) of Cosmetic Surgery, Body Modification and Reproductive Genetic Testing” (via my-inqueeries)
this is what heterophobia would look like if it was real. if you believe that heterophobia is a real thing that exists, please watch this because you will see that it simply doesn’t exist, that it never has and never will.
tbh I think everyone should watch this anyway because it’s very clever and very powerful